Sometimes life is a b….. it really is. We are starting enthusiastic into the new year with a package full of good intentions. You know: more sports etc. But at the end of January we have already overboarded most of them. More sports? I’d rather lie on the couch. The jungle camp is much more interesting, isn’t it?

Anyway we are living in an everlasting conflict with our body. We  not need to lay aside any of our tools. Shaver, Tweezers, Nail file, Powder brush. Actually our body is a sole big construction site. If we are done with one thing, there are things to do on the other side. Permanently working to optimize, restore, improve and refine. This is actually really hard work. And this is what Mulit-Tasking is all about. While the coffee is brewing, we are preparing our breakfast, packing our bag for work and of course painting our toenails. When the hell should we do this all?

This is something men should simulate. And generally men have a really relaxed relationship with their body. A few kilos too much. Oh it doesn’t matter! Then you just have to wear these funny t-Shirts with the following slogan. „Beer has formed this body“ Yes, exactly. Selfconfidence is everything. If men like themselves, they like themselves. Point. There is nothing to doubt about. Why should they? But we have always somehting to exposure, every day. We feel too fat, too skinny, too ugly, too stupid, too everything. But we should copy this side of men.

If we get a compliment for our new pretty dress we usually answer: „Oh thanks, I got it in the sale for 9,90 €.“ Why do we always have to justify us? Why can’t we just say: „Thank you, this the new dress from Designer XY. I also think that the dress suits me.“ No, we always have to downgrade compliments. But why? We should more often listen to ourselves, not to anyone else. If you are working hard you can f…… buy yourself pretty things. That’s ok and it’s good. If anyone has a problem with that, you cannot change it. And if we do not want to go to the gym today, then it is also ok. Little targets are better anyway. Instead of once we are going 2 times a week. If we want to. We do not have to exercise like a madwoman. This will not work out at all. It is important that we are feeling comfortable with ourselves. With everything we are doing and with our body. I would like to have a more relaxed relationship with my body. And at a pinch the T-Shirt with the slogan, do you remember? So now I have to wash my hair, shave my legs, use my cellulitis cream, file my nails, put on my Make-up. Wait a minute: is it possible that men adopt these things for us?