Recently I met a acquaintance of mine. As I told her that I am blogging, she answered: “You are blogging? Well you have to be really narcisstic” First I just wanted to give her a terrible blow but then I held myself back. Thinking. Am I narcissistic? Yes of course, it would be a pitty if not. Self-love is the key to everything. If we are not loving ourselves we can search for luck everywhere but we will never find it. Self-acceptance and self-love are the two most important things in life. We always have to start with ourselves first. Of course we can blame all the others around but if we are not happy with ourselves there is nobody who can make things right in our opinion.

So this good woman did not thought about my luck anyway. Instead she wanted to express her aversion and put a stamp on me. But I guess she confused self-love with narcissitc. Narcissitic in a negative way. Selfish, egocentric and big-headed. Sure you need a little portion of narcissistic if you are a fashion blogger. But in a postive way. You need to be able to see and accept yourself otherwise it is going to be difficult 😉 Of course there are also blogger who only compete for attention, every day, every second. They do not even take away their smartphone, always checking their likes. Fashion blogging entails a litle bit addiction of self-affirmation. I do not completely exclude myself. I am also interested if my readers like my posts and outfits, if I can give you a value. But first of all I love fashion. I love trying different looks, I also like crazy things, not beeing dictated by anyone or anything. I do what I want and what I like. Fashion is a kind of art. You can express yourself in so many ways. Every day. I do not take myself too seriously. I love to share my passion for fashion with you, I want to inspire you and even make you smile from time to time. So am I a bad narcisst? Selfish, egocentric and big-headed? No. Narcisstically? Yes. And I can live very well with it 😉

Have a great day my loves!

xoxo

Monique